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Many Are Taking The Solitary Path To Ascension

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Many of us on our way to ascension have opted to walk our sacred path alone.  Many of us have lived with mates, lovers, boyfriends, girlfriends, husbands, wives.   We went through the motions of life as part of a couple.  These relationships were sacred.  They were tough.  They were amazing.  We learned so much about ourselves.  For the most part we were still asleep, both eyes closed.

In the old energy we came together with our significant other from a place of incompleteness, of being unfulfilled.  We were hoping that the other would fill us up in places we felt empty.  We entered relationships feeling lonely, vulnerable, unworthy, insecure.  But we were disillusioned when the other couldn’t fill the gap.  If we entered the relationship lonely, being with them just magnified our loneliness.   If we hoped we would get financial security, the price for that security became more than we could afford.

Often we were just working out old karma, coming together to relive old issues, lifetime after lifetime.

We learned much about ourselves, what our beliefs were in regard to ourselves, self-worth issues.  Lack of self-love.  We were looking for love in all the wrong places.  We played the abused and the abuser.  We learned what love wasn’t.  It wasn’t neediness, it wasn’t pain, it wasn’t conditional.  We learned that true connection to another is more than just common interests, financial security, or personality matching.  It was so easy to get involved and so hard to disentangle ourselves.

But now many of us on the ascension path have released relationships of old energy, and many of us find ourselves alone, not dependent on anyone else.  At times it can feel quite lonely, but not as lonely as being with someone we can’t connect with.  We are also discovering that being alone is a gift we give ourselves in the last legs of our journey.  We are discovering that it’s the best way to find ourselves, to begin to rely on self, to begin to trust self, to begin to truly love ourselves.

It is a sacred time to delve deeply into self without distraction.  We are discovering that we are whole and complete, and  can provide for ourselves better than anyone else.  We no longer need to look outside ourselves for anything.  We know that ascension is a solitary path.  Yet we know that we truly are not alone.

We are no longer seduced by charm, flattery, intelligence, money, beauty, generosity, or even shared conversation on spirituality.  We feel beyond their words for the deeper truth, and if they are not embracing their own spirit we know it.  We no longer feel a need for approval.  For we are beginning to approve of ourselves.  We embrace our own masculine and feminine qualities, and we are more balanced as a consequence.  We recognize our worth and that our energies are valuable and need not be squandered.

We are discovering that not too many around us are in their balance.  But we don’t allow self-inflicted or societal pressure to seduce us into compromising our deeper truth.  Sometimes we feel heavy in our heart, a little lost, scared.  We have sleepless nights sometimes.  But we also are learning to breathe.  To ask for assistance, for encouragement from our spiritual family.  We can also reach out to a friend, a family member, for someone to talk to.  But we are finding that we are a much better listener, and understand ourselves so much better than anyone else.

We are enjoying our sacred solitude, our creativity.  We are redefining our true passion.  We love our walks, our writing, our music, our silly television shows.  We are building our self-sufficiency muscles.  And from our place of sovereignty we know if someone comes into our life and we desire to share who we are with them, it will be a balanced connection, two divine humans – for the joy of it.

Author: soulsoothinsounds

Our lives are like great paintings or great pieces of music. If we focus on all the technical 'imperfections' we will miss the true beauty of the work. We won't see, or rather, FEEL the essence and spirit of the masterpiece. I no longer identify myself as a writer, artist, or musician. Rather I express my divinity, and my humanity through the media of art, music and writing. I began this blog because I wanted to give voice to my experiences and insights, and I wrote for myself primarily. Six years later, I am still writing for myself, and I am discovering that my experiences are not personal but universal - galactic even. And now I am more sure than ever that I am a new consciousness teacher, as each of you are. The way we teach is by going through the very human experiences, and as we ascend and shed our old selves, with love, and as we embody spirit in this lifetime, which we are all doing, we become the standards for others of the new divine human.

5 thoughts on “Many Are Taking The Solitary Path To Ascension

  1. you wrote this 2 years ago, but this was perfect for my heart tonight. i’m a little bit hurting in the loneliness. not lonely for any of the old i am leaving behind, but lonely for who i haven’t yet become, and lonely for not yet knowing any other souls who feel these things… and maybe finding it a bit hard to trust this path at the moment. i needed this reminder that no matter how much of the rest of the world still loudly screams of those old connections of need and lack… i can’t go back… i never actually could live that way, it never felt right to my soul. thank u for writing this, it was a hug for my shaky heart tonight.

    • Dear Sweet Pea
      thank you for your honesty, because you speak for so many other brave souls who have taken this sacred path…and yes, the doubts come in and they are sometimes relentless…and as our faith wavers, someone or something catches our attention as a reminder that we truly are not alone…and that’s our soul tapping us on the shoulder saying, “I love you.”
      Blessings
      Maria

  2. thank u Maria ❤

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