In the new energy, we are living in the now more and more. We are letting go of past and future ‘thinking’. As we embody spirit we are aware that creating our reality is all about the NOW moment. The feeling that time is speeding up, and the days seem to meld into each other is not just our perception. There are real physical changes taking place as we move out of duality.
Ascension is about being at home here, in these bodies. It’s about bringing home here, at least for now, while we reside on this planet. As we continue integrating spirit, we find ourselves being more discerning about how we want to use and share our energies. If something doesn’t feel right, in our NOW MOMENT, (not based on what we may have decided in our past) we are trusting our instincts more, and we make desicions based on that trust. And if it feels good, we more and more choose from that feeling. Especially in relationships, if we don’t feel a real connection with the other, that is, a connection from the deeper part of ourselves, we know it now more than ever before. In the past we were able to deceive ourselves, but not so much now. So if connecting with a person, a group, or an activity, or even a job doesn’t feel like the right fit, we know it, so it’s NO. Not maybe, just NO. If we try to get logical, it doesn’t work. If it’s not yes, it’s no. And it doesn’t take too much ‘time’ to discerrn this truth anymore. We just know. The problem is, we still don’t trust our instincts totally yet. The voice of ‘reason’ still creeps in with questions like, “but what if I am missing a great opportunity? What if I am hurting their feelings? What if I am wrong?”
But what if you are right? What if you do know? What if you are far enough into your ascension to know, which, if you are reading this, you are….what if you know because your decisions are now based upon what is best for you from your broader perspective? And what is best for you isn’t about trying to please anyone else anymore, or trying to fit into a relationship or job or situation that doesn’t reflect that embodied master you are becoming.
This doesn’t mean you need to necessarily abandon your family or job or relationship. But it does mean you are not able to deceive yourself anymore. It does mean that within those families and jobs and relationships, you are releasing your care- taking roles and moving into your sovereignty. When you become more aware, it can at first be very unsettling. You find yourself wondering if you don’t love others anymore, because you really care about how YOU feel more and more. You begin to feel selfish. (See my post, Get Selfish And Stay There.)
So guilt comes up. Don’t worry, it’s all part of the process. It’s coming up to be cleared. It is no longer a requirement to hold energies for others or be in situations for soul growth. Now you are required to be there for YOU!
You will still find a myriad of new age sites that support the old paradigm of self-sacrifice in the name of the good of others. And for those humans, it’s appropriate, but if you are here reading this, you are among those who decided to move past the old concepts of sacrificing for the good of the many. You have reached the place where you are tired of the maybes. It’s either yes or no for you. It is liberating because it clears your energies. Carrying around so many maybes is exhausting!
You know who you are. You know your time and energies are valuable and that you will not allow them to be squandered. And, as you make yourself your first priority, you will find that the abundance just takes care of itself along with your health and well-being. You also find that saying yes to yourself helps everyone else. They will thank you later!