In the old energy we looked outside ourselves for validation, for approval, for love. It’s the way it was. we would look for something or someone to fill us up, because we felt empty. Unfulfilled. We never questioned it. It’s what we did. We thought being lonely, or needing financial security, or emotional security was relieved by finding a partner. It was the natural way of things.
Those partners were a perfect match. They too were feeling not complete. We all projected our unmet needs and issues onto each other. We were coming together to try to fulfill some unfinished karma. How did that work out? Not so good. There was a lot of drama, disappointment, heartbreak and blame. We were playing out old, karmic patterns over and over.
So now, as many of us find ourselves alone, we are called upon to be there for ourselves. We tried being there for others, but that just isn’t going to work in the new energy. We are now called upon to find our own inner strength, to be our own best friend. To dress up for ourselves, go to dinner with ourselves, to buy flowers for ourselves, to consult with our inner being when we are anxious or lonely.
It doesn’t mean we don’t have friends, or family, but it does mean we no longer are connected to them in the same way. Sometimes it plays out with us or them moving on. But we set it up so that we can truly be with ourselves at a time when the energies are ripe for loving ourselves. We set it up so that we can take advantage of the most loving energies that ever hit this Planet! We said that we wanted this lifetime to be THE lifetime. No-one or nothing would stop us! This was going to be the lifetime when we discovered ourselves. We are waking up from the dream, slowly, yet from the perspective of how long we’ve been asleep, things are happening at lightening speed.
And as we become more compassionate with ourselves, as we take action on the understanding that we are gods in human form, the universal energies just simply mirror that back to us. Then life gets better and better. We are raising our standards. We won’t settle for second best. Why should we? Why settle for four day old tuna when you can eat a freshly caught and perfectly cooked swordfish? Why drag around a run-down, tired body when you can have health and vitality? Granted these changes will take a bit of time, but in the scheme of things, it’s a short time compared to the eons of time we were cut off from our own soul.
There has never been a better time on this Planet to fall in love with yourself. Sure, it will take some practice, but just remind yourself of how easy it was to fall in love with someone else, at least in the beginning of the friendship or courtship. Just remind yourself of that feeling that coursed through your veins, and how your heart beat a little faster and your step was a little more lively. How you couldn’t wait to be with him or her. Now, imagine that other person being….you.
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