So many on the ascension path are feeling detached from what once gave them pleasure, from people they once resonated with, and are experiencing a general sense of aloneness.
Many who are experiencing this are interpreting it as bad. Something is wrong. Maybe, they think, I just don’t want to be here anymore. Life just doesn’t hold the same meaning for me anymore.
But what they are not taking into account is that they are detaching from old energies, from the old way they connected to life, not detaching from life itself. There is a difference. For example, many of us have detached from world events and aren’t plugged into the news. No, we are not burying our heads in the sand, we just know that the world is doing what it does and needn’t affect us. We have compassion, not pity, for all those on their own sacred path, even if that path is one of war. We are not interested in saving anyone. We understand that one who is connected to their Soul is millions of times more powerful than millions who are disconnected from their source.
We know that all is well and that we are of greater assistance to others, and to the world if we are in love with ourselves and our own life. Feeling detached in this case is positive for all concerned.
Feeling detached from friends and family can cause lots of concern and guilt. We are not so available for them emotionally or physically anymore. We are understanding that the energy of worry toward others just helps perpetuates their issues. How wonderful that we are finally giving them the gift of solving their own problems. Of being their own source of comfort and joy. What a beautiful gift to anyone – to help them to become empowered!
We are detaching from drama, in others and in ourself. Not responding to emotions that pull us into feelings of hopelessness and powerlessness. While we honor the feelings, we allow the feelings to come and go. We’re even detaching from worry about our own medical issues or health issues. Well meaning friends or family fear we are in denial, but in fact we are finally surrendering it to spirit. Allowing the healing process to take place without trying to do it ourselves.
We are detaching from goals, plans, from trying to make things happen in our life. Whether it’s to lose weight, get buff, build a career, you name it. Many of those things may not be important anymore to us, or if we do desire something, we have a knowing that it is already there, and we just need to allow it into our experience. It’s the struggle and trying and needing to prove worthiness that we are detaching from. This may be interpreted by others or ourselves as being lazy, or as wishful thinking. As not being ambitious. We may still be unfamiliar with our limitless creator abilities, but we do know that the old ways aren’t working.
These feelings of detachment can initially created a void that is interpreted as a loss of identity. Who are we without our old role of caretaker, of artist, musician, writer, wife, mother, father, best friend, even of someone striving for spiritual enlightenment. We may even become detached from that one because we are awakening to the realization that we are already there. We don’t need to seek god, for god is within us, within our bodies and hearts.
So we are systematically detaching from the old ways of doing things. And this can leave our minds reeling…..wondering what in the world is happening.
What is happening is the most incredible experience a human will ever have! Releasing old worn out ways of being so they can embrace their soul and create with joy and ease. To have a partner with them who loves them unconditionally, who has no fears, and who can clear up their disease, their financial lack or create with ease their hearts desires.
So the detachment isn’t an issue, it’s our interpretation of it that brings us pain. And it’s being in the place that new energy pioneers find themselves: doubting themselves, being uncertain of what lies ahead, shaking in their boots.
But it’s a place of adventure. If you are reading this, you are an adventurer. You love exploring the new and unchartered. The bigger the adventure, the bigger the fears. So dear adventurer, give yourself credit for blazing new trails! You didn’t come here to play it safe. Don’t let the feelings of detachment be a negative. See it as a springboard for reconnecting to life in a whole new way. And that way will make itself known to you, a step at a time. Your only requirement is to trust that.
And to continue doing things that bring you joy. To continue accepting and loving who you are in each moment.