There seems to be a fear among many who are awakening to their God-selves, that they will be leaving their loved ones behind. This process of transformation absolutely does require releasing old beliefs and patterns such as fear and worry, and in some cases it does require releasing relationships that no longer resonate with where we are. But when it comes to those we feel a connection with on a heart level, perhaps our children or our parents or anyone else, it does not necessarily mean never seeing that person or not being in a relationship with them. But it does mean that the old dynamics will be released from that relationship. It’s letting go of the old way of connecting with those people.
Some sources have been telling us that as we ascend, those who are not choosing ascension will be transported to a different Earth, or we will be transported to a different Earth, leaving our loved ones behind. That is not the truth. Those of us who have chosen embodied enlightenment, (ascending and staying here on Earth) will remain on this Earth and live alongside our human family, including our own biological family, if we choose. Yes we will be relating to them on an entirely different level, and if we enjoy nurturing them there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. But we are discovering that there is a new way of relating to ourselves and to others.
Yes, it pulls on our heartstrings sometimes when we feel that we are moving into such a different space than the ones we love. But please remember that everyone who is alive now on this Planet is part of the awakening. and on some level knew that this would be a profound time of change. They themselves may not be ready for their ascension but there is no rush, there is no pressure for them to do it any sooner than they are ready.
In this new energy, as we embrace our Christ consciousness, we also begin to feel that unconditional love that is coming from our soul nature. That kind of love does not leave anyone out. That type of love embraces every single aspect of ourselves that has felt unlovable. And in that love those parts begin to transform with us. The same holds true for our children, or our parents, or anyone else we feel connected to in our life. We begin to see them from a whole new perspective with so much more compassion because we are seeing ourselves that way.
But we will not be relating to them with pity or seeing them or ourselves as victims. We may think that our children are not going to be protected by us if we move into our divinity. It is important to understand that as we embrace our divine nature and make it more and more a part of our every day life, everyone around us benefits. Not all may understand what we are going through and they may even become angry at us because they’re used to the old dynamics of the relationship. However, on a soul level they want us to ascend.
Your children are so blessed to have a parent such as yourself who has the courage to move into an energy that has never been part of their human reality up to this point. Those children are so blessed to be part of this amazing transformational process, even if they themselves are not ready to ascend. Anyone in your life that you feel a heart connection to is benefitting from your presence. They may be seeing a parent that is beginning to love themselves and is not willing to compromise their own well-being anymore. Who is beginning to set boundaries and pay attention to their own feelings and needs. Who is recognizing that the most important relationship is the one with their own soul. They may be seeing a parent who accept themselves more just as they are, and isn’t trying to be ‘perfect’ at anything.
Yes it may initially cause some ruffled feathers, but change does that. But as we love ourselves, and as we accept that loving ourselves does move old stuck energies in ourselves, eventually our lives do get better and better. So remember that love is the elixir and love is what this whole process is about. It’s about falling in love with ourselves just as we are, and then being the living example to those in our life that this self-love thing has tremendous benefits for all.
copyright © 2015, Maria Chambers, All rights reserved. Please feel free to share this content with others, post on your blog, your Facebook page, etc, but maintain this article’s integrity by including the author and source website link: Maria Chambers at http://www.soulsoothinsounds.wordpress.com