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He Said, She Said


Art by Maria Chambers

I hope by now you are not taking anything personally.  Whether it’s an illness, a relationship problem, or any situation in your life that frustrates you.  Because if you are reading this and are dialed into these types of messages, you have dove in and are in the process of integrating back into yourself, in your physical body, in this lifetime.

And those last three words are up to you.  You could do it later, in another lifetime.  There’s no deadline really.  But if you are going through extreme breakdowns or have gone through these, of health, relationships, finances, or emotional and mental, you definitely wanted this to be the lifetime!  A lifetime in which you fall in love with you and integrate with your Divine self.  You are in your process of self-mastery.

And in that process you are sensing that these issues are not just personal, but galactic.  As you awaken, you begin to see the bigger picture.

Shakespeare said it aptly, “All the world’s a stage, and the men and women merely players.”. And yes, we are here acting out the galactic issues that had us battling even before the Planet was formed.  Here on the stage called Planet Earth, we got to play out the imbalances that were created as a result of separating from source.

Art by Maria Chambers


The proverbial battle of the sexes, the he said, she said, the women are from Venus, men are from Mars….all originate, again, from a time even before the birth of this Earth.  Source, in its desire to know itself, separated aspects of  itself into the masculine and the feminine.  (The outer self and the inner self). This separation gave it a new perspective of the qualities of what each part represents.

So the original Adam and Isis explored their roles and ended up misunderstanding each other, and losing trust in each other.  Adam was the explorer, who went out to see… well, to see what was out there.  And Isis was the homemaker, providing a warm and nurturing environment.  But the longer Adam explored out in the world, the more he felt separate from Isis, from her love. The longer he was busy out there, trying to create something for his beloved, Isis, the more he missed her and gradually began to think she didn’t love him…he began to question himself.  Was he not worthy of her love?  Self-doubt was born.  Feelings of inadequacy.  Is there more he needed to do or perform in order to be worthy of her love?  He began feeling abandoned and betrayed and took his anger out on her.  She in turn felt tremendous guilt for not being there for him.  But the truth is that she did love him, and did not withhold that love.  She had no idea that going out to explore could cause Adam to feel unloved by her.

But, the greater truth is that Adam had the Feminine within him all the time.  And Isis had the Masculine within her.  So the anger and guilt were misplaced.  But the good news is we are now witnessing the integration of Adam and Isis.  The Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine are reuniting.  We who are on the forefront of this change are integrating all our aspects that were separated.  

And we are seeing that happen slowly in the world, where homosexuality is being accepted more and more.  Men are more open to their intuition and their feelings, and are less action oriented, and women are more able to hold their own, set boundaries and take up space.  They are beginning to feel safe being here, in their bodies and on this Planet.  And they are releasing their guilt and their shame along with their caretaking roles.  They are letting go their victim status.

So, within relationships, abandonment issues, anger issues, control issues, when looked at from the broader perspective, are far more galactic in nature than personal.  And these could be happening between two men or two women, because  both Masculine and Feminine are within each gender.  How long have we been projecting, in our relationships, our own fears and feelings of being incomplete?  Our own feelings of abandonment, shame and guilt?  Far too long.  We grew tired of the game.  The Feminine is tired of being the emotional caretakers, of not feeling safe to be here,  and the Masculine is tired of searching outside himself for love.  He is tired of trying to prove his worthiness.

So the initial separations were necessary in order to understand each aspect, but then being so separated created deep wounds.  Because in that process of separation we forgot who were are….that we are whole and comp!ete.

Meanwhile people spend years in deep analysis trying to figure out their emotional problems, or just trying to run from them.  This also is not working very well. They need to see the bigger picture.

And as this reunion between the Masculine and Feminine takes place, life can be enjoyed like never before.  Coming from a place of wholeness, which couldn’t be achieved from only our limited human perspective.

So truly, there is nothing to try to figure out.  It’s just to allow your integration to proceed.  And don’t take it so personally.

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Author: soulsoothinsounds

Our lives are like great paintings or great pieces of music. If we focus on all the technical 'imperfections' we will miss the true beauty of the work. We won't see, or rather, FEEL the essence and spirit of the masterpiece. I no longer identify myself as a writer, artist, or musician. Rather I express my divinity, and my humanity through the media of art, music and writing. I began this blog because I wanted to give voice to my experiences and insights, and I wrote for myself primarily. Eight years later, I am still writing for myself, and I am discovering that my experiences are not personal but universal - galactic even. And now I am more sure than ever that I am a new consciousness teacher, as each of you are. The way we teach is by going through the very human experiences, and as we ascend and shed our old selves, with love, and as we embody spirit in this lifetime, which we are all doing, we become the standards for others of the new divine human.

13 thoughts on “He Said, She Said

  1. wholeness ❤ ❤ ❤ literally nothing else means anything to me anymore.

    loooove this post so so much. relationships, the separation, the battle of energies… ug. everything everywhere just feels like a tangled mess about of energetic chaos and codependency and suffocating he said she said role playing of those old tired stories… it just exhausts my spirit. the integration, the wholeness, it's the only thing i can breathe in. i just wanna close my eyes and wake up somewhere new where there's only wholeness and purity and divine masculine and feminine healed, whole… love ❤ ❤ ❤

    i just wanted to say hi Maria, Elila, Kat ❤ i wander about all the time and read the posts and comments, but don't really have it in me to put what i feel into words anymore. i just read the comments the 3 of y'all leave and think… yup, yup, yup, totally, exactly… saaaame here lol. you 3 so perfectly put it into words for me 🙂

    • Sweet Pea
      First let me say it’s fine about not commenting until it feels right for you. Regardless you are a part of the ‘family’ here.💜 I do the same from time to time…just enjoying the commenters talk among themselves. And, yep, it is crazy out there in terms of dysfunctional relationships, and I find myself alone now, and after letting go of the old energy relationships, sometimes missing that kind of one to one interaction, but knowing that I am in good company with my soul. And having patience because those old caretaking patterns have been pretty deeply entrenched in us as women.

  2. ❤ thank you Maria. i feel like your words help clear those old energy relationship patterns out, and breathe life into new energy that can be. a big hug to all of you 🙂

    • Hi sweet pea!
      Let me just say a great big “DITTO!!!” to everything you just expressed here! I too am here pretty much daily because Maria and our little group here in comments seems to help clear out some of that old energy & breathe in some new. It feels fortifying even if im reading it for the 10th time. And i also so often can’t articulate my feelings–words arent coming as easily as im used to-whenever you see me comment it likely took me an hour to put it together! I totally get what you are saying 😄💕.
      And you & Maria are also so right–the relationships i see around me mke me so grateful to be alone right now, although occasionally i do miss certain aspects, like an easy, gentle affection & having someone to share this ride with/companionship, but i too long (oh SO much) to wake up where you so perfectly describe sweet pea, and i just dont see around me the kind of relationship that would feel lovely & energizing to me as opposed to kinda heavy & ultimately ennervating? “Exhausts my spirit…”–yes thats exactly how it feels!
      Big hugs back & love to you all

      • yes ❤ ❤ ❤ Elila i read your comments all the time and everything you write i just go yup, yup, yup, me too! wow! she's totally peeking in my head! and then i write like an hour long comment in my head back to you, but when i go to actually type it out, and it's too much to ever speak in words i can make sense of, so i suddenly have nothing to say 😂😂😂 i've had like a week's worth of conversations with you that you don't about haha.

      • *don’t know about 🙂

  3. Sweet pea
    Yes i know!! Its the same for me. I have far more conversations in my head with our little group, and then im overwhelmed by all the words it would take & i cant even begin! But ya know, i think that perhaps even though we may not be expressing it all the time in words, it still comes through in some way–i mean i feel soothed, delighted & happy that you all EXIST, and that we can come here and feel a “homeness” with each other, mingling our energies whether we write it out or not, there’s kind of a wholeness & pureness here with or without articulating every thought, if that makes sense? Just knowing we are all here together reading & feeling so many of the same things–i can feel you, and then even the briefest comments are icing on our cake! 💙💕💙💕💙

    • yup i feel the same way Elila ❤ i feel that "homeness" for sure. i think it's safe to guess everyone that stumbles their way here has spent a lot of their life thinking and feeling things they don't see reflected anywhere else in this world, so it's so so comforting just knowing other souls out there think and feel these kinds of things… i guess it kinda makes those things we long for that seem unreachable and imaginary because of our current reality, more possible and not imaginary at all :\

      • So perfectly stated sweet pea. I totally agree. 💙 😊

      • ” i think it’s safe to guess everyone that stumbles their way here has spent a lot of their life thinking and feeling things they don’t see reflected anywhere else in this world”

        Absolutely spot on! Perfectly said 🙂

  4. Right there with all of you. I don’t have words, because all of you took them out of my mouth, lol.

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