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People Don’t Change


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People Don’t Change

No, really. They don’t. Unless you count those on the forefront of the ascension, embodied enlightenment movement. Those of us who have been doing the change thing for quite some time.

And even we get sidetracked and stuck, don’t we? There seems to be a struggle between the human who is grasping onto its old ways, and our soul, who wants to experience the new and is into constantly expanding.

Most people’s idea of change is to quit their job. Or get into a new line of work. To them it could mean they want to move, or redecorate their house. Maybe lose weight.

While to them these constitute changes, (and while these can be a by product of real change), and yes, they do require a few new adjustments, they are just reorganizing their old story to look new.

They haven’t yet initiated true change, and we know now what that entails don’t we?

I know for myself, I have given up on trying to help people to change who really are not interested. They may say they are, sometimes in order to stay in my life. But, really they are for the most part the same person they were ten years ago, and in some cases, decades ago.

And sometimes they can be quite convincing, and they have our number…they know how to play us.  So, don’t kid yourself, and don’t let them kid you either.

Oh, and by the way, our dear mind does the same thing. It has our number and knows how to sell us a bill of goods, doesn’t it?

I ams what I am, and that’s alls that I am”

So, I have come to the conclusion that unless they are in this ascension process, too, (actually everyone is at one stage or another in this process, but there are those on the accelerated path) they are who they are and for the most part who they always have been.

So I have a choice. I can try to help them to see that they are on a treadmill going nowhere, and well….doing that goes nowhere….or I can simply accept who they are and just enjoy them at that level.

And if I can’t there is always the choice to set them free. In fact I have noticed that is what usually happens. In fact, they are the ones who want to be set free, but they cleverly set it up so it looks like I was the one moving on. They would somehow sabotage the relationship.

That way, once again, they can continue playing victim and point the finger at someone else for their feelings of abandonment or whatever issue they are not ready or willing to deal with.

Again, people don’t change.

I am not saying this to discourage anyone from wanting to be of service to the people around them, but it’s important to face some hard truths. And in doing so, one can move on to the real work here, which is to fall in love with ourself, to nurture self and share if desired our wisdom and share it with those who are interested in change. Real change.

Otherwise our precious energies will be squandered in the wrong places. Our light will be dimmed, and we end up not being in service at all. To anyone.

Precious energies that create potentials for those who may become more ready to initiate change.   Even those around us.  Because they see how being into real change has some real payoffs.  They begin to notice that you are more at peace, or that you are more self-loving.

And, we have discovered, interestingly, that true change, real transformation begins by accepting ourselves just as we are.

But if others are not really ready or willing to change, to step out of their old story, you could be manifesting amazing things and all they will see is someone who just got lucky.  It won’t compute to them as your soul being in the driver’s seat of your life.

People see through the filter of their own beliefs and limitations.  I think we are seeing this more now that we are moving into higher frequencies.  The gap seems to be growing wider between where we are and the rest of the planet.

Which is good.  It’s necessary.  Releasing duality was part of the plan.

So, I know it’s fun to watch movies in which people are magically transformed into someone diametrically different than when the movie started, but can we get real here?

Can we be ok with the truth that people, at least until they decide to, don’t really change?

Enjoy Best Friend from Cosmic Blend

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Author: soulsoothinsounds

Our lives are like great paintings or great pieces of music. If we focus on all the technical 'imperfections' we will miss the true beauty of the work. We won't see, or rather, FEEL the essence and spirit of the masterpiece. I no longer identify myself as a writer, artist, or musician. Rather I express my divinity, and my humanity through the media of art, music and writing. I began this blog because I wanted to give voice to my experiences and insights, and I wrote for myself primarily. Almost a decade later, I am still writing for myself, and I am discovering that my experiences are not personal but universal - galactic even. And now I am more sure than ever that I am a new consciousness teacher, as each of you are. The way we teach is by going through the very human experiences, and as we ascend and shed our old selves, with love, and as we embody spirit in this lifetime, which we are all doing, we become the standards for others of the new divine human.

10 thoughts on “People Don’t Change

  1. I have tended to think most of the people as AI bots or agent Smiths from Matrix. They have a certain set of preprogrammed behavioural patterns and responses that they mimic ad nauseam. They are capable of adapting to situation and “deep learning / machine learn” new things but only to a limited level ( :). In a word, they are boring or like you said – you need to enjoy / tolerate them in their level 🙂

    A more recent angle to the same issue, I have started to consider myself as an alien to this planet in a sense that I just observe the life-forms here but let them run their course without much interference. So, not really even pretending or fooling myself trying to assimilate here somehow. Roam just like a tourist – curious but detached and just passing by and hence treading lightly.

    • Ditto…yes, at this stage of this ascension process it does feel like we are just passing through, and observing the human species. As we move beyond so much of our old programming, it does seem like we are watching robots.

      And you say you are allowing yourself the perspective of just visiting and observing. I like that, because it’s truly what we are doing.

      I understand that many of us didn’t originate from Planet Earth, and have come from many different star systems and planets.

      But I also feel that I have lived many, many lifetimes on this planet, and throughout those lifetimes I have had such deep experiences. And I have come to love this crazy planet in spite of its situation.

      But I agree that mankind has been stuck in the mental sphere, making the mind the Master for so long, and there seems to be an acceleration of that in our culture. I am an artist and musician and I believe that art (music, writing, and many other art forms)is the one thing that can have the most profound effect on life on this planet. And that’s because it bypasses the brain, the thinking and goes directly to the heart and the soul.

      And yet it seems to be put on the back burner in terms of priorities.

      But yes, from where many of us are sitting right now, from a place of awakening and detaching from the matrix, it does feel like we are the aliens on a not so friendly planet.

  2. “………can move on to the real work here, which is to fall in love with ourself, to nurture self and share if desired our wisdom and share it with those who are interested in change. Real change.”

    yes yes yes….as I keep saying, it is an inside job.

    I love you, I love me! and I love us all!

  3. Make and keep yourself your top priority. It’s the proper order of things.

    One’s inner work helps others more than anything else one could do for others.

    What you have for Other outwardly is an offering. Don’t attach to what they do with it. Compassionate Non-attachment.

    Just be the truest version of your True Self that you can muster in any given moment… no matter who may or may not be watching. Set the example.

    And yes, the extremes of light and dark are / will be more pronounced. Eventually folks won’t help but notice.

    People need to reach “Enough already!” before they will change. Different levels for different people.

    All in Divine and Perfect Timing.

    • Yes, Gaia Ascension Forerunner….very beautifully said. And right, things need to really heat up before change is initiated…it seems to be the way it goes. We ascension pioneers know that all too intimately. 💕💕💕

  4. In keeping with Popeye’s theme, I am Olive Oil…. I change, do my best to love myself for my courage, and thus open frequencies for others to choose what they will. Thus, I ‘oil’ the way! And by the way, when I was a kid, I always thought Popeye was saying, “I’m a yam.” Love, B.

  5. Barbara…I like your Olive Oil analogy. And, well, yams have roots and are sweet. So, I’de own It. And BTW, your comment time stamp was 11:11 in my email. Can’t make this stuff up. 💕

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