I have posted on ascension and anger, but I noticed there are many issues surrounding anger and the Ascension process. So I feel it is worthy of more discussion.
It is absolutely natural for the emotion of anger to come up during the process of Ascension. Anger has been given such a bad rap, especially for those who consider themselves spiritual. So people tend to judge themselves when they feel rage and even when they feel mildly irritated.
No matter what our gender, feeling angry is absolutely appropriate. There is a lot to feel angry about through this process. A lot of the anger is coming from mass consciousness. A lot of it is coming from our past. And I don’t mean just this lifetime but many, many other lifetimes. It does not make any sense to judge this emotion as wrong or as bad. It is absolutely appropriate.
Women especially are troubled by this emotion because as we know women have not been allowed to feel anger. Women who demonstrate frustration or anger are usually seen as overly emotional, and even hysterical. Whereas men who display anger are simply asserting themselves and being strong. So, it is no wonder that women have suppressed anger for so long. And when I say long, I mean generations.
If so much rage has been bottled up for so long, it is going to feel very unsettling as it is coming out and wanting expression. And I will say that this anger does want and need expression. Trying to rationalize it away is not a good idea.
The anger in large degree for women comes from being oppressed and controlled as a gender for such a long time. It is anger towards the male, and anger towards herself. It’s a healthy step when the anger starts to surface.
To be always accommodating, patient, and self-sacrificing has been the standard for women for such a long time. So it will feel really uncomfortable at first for women to be angry. I know for myself, I went through a very intense stage of anger. While I did not take it out on anyone around me, I expressed it as best as I could by screaming, pounding a pillow, ranting and raving, drawing, painting…..whatever I felt would give it a voice.
It took a while for me to become comfortable with the feeling. Frankly it was unsettling. But as it came up, I knew I had to feel it, and sometimes if it was strong enough, express it viscerally.
I noticed, over time, as I became more accepting of the anger, I wasn’t feeling it as intensely. As we know, the more we judge and suppress emotions, the more explosive they can become.
Some say that anger is a destructive emotion. We see how anger can lead to acts of violence and worse. But if you are reading this and you feel connected to this type of material, you are not in a consciousness that would harm anyone.
So if you try to repress the emotion of anger, you will just be hurting yourself. Repressed emotions are a funny thing. They will find some way to express. Displaced or repressed anger can be expressed as illness, disease, and even depression.
Anger could also be from allowing others to cross our boundaries. Whether it is emotional or physical boundaries. And in some cases it is absolutely appropriate to set those boundaries with others. We as women have to get over the idea that we need to please everyone no matter what.
In this Ascension process, we will not be able to play the good and kind girl or boy. It will be working against us. And it’s not about being perfect at this either. It will take some getting used to. Don’t try to get over the anger so quickly. Allow it to surface And don’t try to figure it out, to analyze and ask what it’s about, or where did it come from. That is a mental process, and it just stops the natural flow.
And give it a voice as best as you can.
On the world stage we are seeing that women are giving themselves permission to feel anger and rage. The male population, as well as many women don’t really like that very much because it is threatening to their sense of security, and their status quo. Incredibly, many believe that the feminine poses a threat, and must be stopped at all costs.
But more and more women are demanding that those people be held accountable for their animus and bad behaviors toward women.
THE GOOD NEWS
We are discovering, as we move into a fifth dimensional state of consciousness, that what’s happening out there in 3D doesn’t have anything to do with who we are and why we are here. That world will benefit by us being here, but we can’t expect it to be responsible for how we choose to feel about ourselves.
That doesn’t mean we will not be affected by the prevailing energies of that world. But as emerging masters of our own creations, we are too wise to pretend that we have no choice but to give into the energies out there.
Many of us have moved past the intense anger, and are more bored than anything. We feel disconnected from that world. And, sometimes we will play in a little drama or anger to feel connected and alive.
And, really, that’s o.k. because as the masters we know we are playing in that energy and we can move out of it at any time we choose.
Mastery on Earth isn’t about creating the perfect circumstances in order to feel good. It’s acknowledging our multidimensional selves, and aligning with the self that knows all is well.
This alignment happens naturally through the ascension process. Our human self doesn’t have to try to figure anything out. The less trying and thinking, the better.
And as far as the world outside our door is concerned, our expanded self really doesn’t give a crap what others think of us, and it’s only interested in experiencing this time and space reality with its human partner. It will not compromise its freedom and joy for anyone, or anything.
But it has compassion for its human partner, and that includes when the human feels angry. Our soul won’t assert itself into our experience, but instead it will allow us to experience the range of our emotions as we see fit.
Interestingly, I have found that as I accept myself and all of my emotions as best as I can, my soul magnifies that self-love a thousand fold. And each day, as I practice self-acceptance and self-love, it doesn’t mean I become a glowing being of light who never gets irritated.
It’s actually the opposite. I have less tolerance for b.s., plain and simple.
But the difference is I know who I am. I am not trying to change others or the world of duality in order to feel better. But I am less tolerant of energy feeders, and I set boundaries more easily. It’s not something you have to force. It just comes naturally as our primary allegiance is more and more with our soul.
If you have moved from depression to anger, congratulate yourself. It’s definitely a step in the right direction. Honoring and embracing anger is critical in this life-altering transformational process. It’s a process that seems to ask of us to let go of control. And to the mind, that is a scary thing to do.
There is a fear of being destructive, and of alienating people. As women especially we have spent lifetimes assuaging male anger, because we saw clearly how destructive that anger could be. We see, in the world of duality, how many men lose control, and believe aggression is the solution to problems.
In fact, we ourselves in other lifetimes, as men, women, and all genders, were destructive, and vowed never to misuse our power again.
But this lifetime is different. We don’t have to hold back. We may feel bored, kind of beat up, and we may at times feel angry, and there are times we feel that blissed out state. It’s all good. Nothing to worry about.
So, go ahead and enjoy your anger.
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