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One of my cafe friends is well into his 70 s. He is brilliant. He can talk about a myriad of subjects, and can do the New York Times crossword in under 30 minutes. Yet, developmentally, on an emotional level, he is still a 14 year old boy. He still blames his parents for his unhappiness. He is still angry that the other boys bullied him, and the girls rejected him.