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Empathy, Sympathy, Guilt and Obligation

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When we talk about wanting to feel free, wanting to be ourselves, we need to look at the ways we have not felt free. Continue reading


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Give Yourself Permission

Many of us at the later stages of ascension are finding ourselves rather detached from it all…the news, the issues of friends and family, even from our own issues.  Sure there is still the pull of mass consciousness, the tug of sadness, loneliness, some frustration and anger biting at our ankles.  But we are noticing a slow but sure releasing of the drama and trauma that comes from reacting to the demands of the outside world.

Those of us who are especially empathic are becoming more aware that much of the emotions surging through us, especially the sadness and lonliness, even the anger, are not a true representation of who we are.  We are figuring out that as we give ourselves permission to just feel, that those feelings transform much more quickly into peace and joy.  The new energy is all about allowing.  It’s not about fighting with ourselves.  There is no more need for battle.  But at times we tend to still be in battle mode.

Pushing, trying, and struggling are old modes of existing.  Many, even those in the world of the asleep, are discovering that truth.  The struggles with the outside world are simply mirrors for the inner struggle.  So as we put down our sword, and as we breathe spirit deeply into our every day life, we discover that life just flows.  And then the fears, the anxieties, the sadness and the anger are given room to flow out of our energy field all on their own.

So it’s about giving ourselves permission to feel the so-called dark emotions when they come through us.  It’s releasing control of our life from the mind and allowing our spirit more and more space in our life.  When we allow all the feelings space without processing them, without trying to connect them to our own issues or ‘wounds,’ they literally have no place to ‘stick.’  So as we detach from the outside world, we also detach from our own emotions.  THAT DOES NOT MEAN DENYING THEM! There is a distinctive difference.

The Five-Year Plan

Sometimes we feel like we have had enough and want to leave this body and this planet.  That’s fine.  It’s o.k. to have that feeling.  It’s o.k. to give yourself a five-year plan.  A type of inner decision that after five years more here on Planet Earth, if you feel done, you permit yourself to leave.

The other day I was approached by a man who seemed filled with anxiety, cynicism, and problems.  He went on for a while about them, and I finally asked, “Do you want to be here on the planet?”  He was visibly shaken by my question.  He replied, “Of course I do!  What kind of a question is that?  Why would you even ask that ?”  

Then I realized, that is exactly what keeps him here along with so many others:  the struggle, the crises, the problems.  It’s the energetic glue that keeps them tethered to life here.

So as we on the forefront of the ascension detach and begin to feel like maybe we are done here, we may not be allowing ourselves the luxury of that idea.   Does wanting to leave the planet mean there is something wrong with us?  Not at all.  If we just allow ourselves the luxury of planning our leave, something amazing happens.  We begin appreciating life more than ever, because we now know that our stay may be only a few short years!

We no longer feel trapped here, so we can truly enjoy this experience.  If we are fearful of death and what will become of us we truly can’t enjoy life.  So the five-year plan can be, for example,  if you are not yet in your new lightbody, and are still too uncomfortable in the world of the asleep in five years, you will move on.  You can create your own version of your five-year plan, and of course, revise it at any time, or even cancel it altogether.  If you pressure yourself to stay because of some misguided allegiance to family or loved ones,  or world peace, let that one go!  That is not the role of the new ascending human.

So the New Ascending Human allows whatever feels good into their life in the NOW.  But it’s done in a new way, by giving themselves permission to feel just what they are feeling, without judgement.  And that’s true freedom, isn’t it?

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